2021.01.14 daily english study log

today i watched very useful video about speaking without nervousness in english

 

the reason why i choose this video is that i always feel nervousensess whenever i meet other person.

 

this is becaus everytime when i meet someone, i think that on no what i should talk about with him or she!

 

may he blame or tease me if i show feeling shy or nervousense?

 

so, i should not have to feel shy in front of them, i always lead the conversation, and i have to seems like perfect.

 

this thought makes me suffer, and i always avoid people to prevent me from this situation.

 

but, in these days, i wathed many videos about improving english skills.

 

and i focused on psychological factors that can affect on our speaking skills.

 

i found this video uploaded to youtube in 2013 gives me some insights how i can overcome this faults.

 

in this video, the instructor, julian northbrooks, talked about nervousness and strage fright in front of people we are speaking.

 

he gave me 5 tips, but i cannot remeber everythings. i will just write down here what i do not forget.

 

do prefare before speaking. he says if we are practice before speaking or prepared, we will be less nervousness.

 

but everytime we don't have to do that, because if we are relaxed, as we can get into the situation, we don't feel any nervousness and speaking freely.

 

another tips i can't of that exatly was that nervousness is not unique to you.

 

he says everyone feels nervousness and shy. so we don't have to dig ourself.

 

to overcome this, we should introduce ourself first to other people.

 

there is no one who blame you even if your speaking gramma is incorrect.

 

everyone will understand you becaus they also know that your are english learner

 

oh, my god.

 

i forgot writing something that i gonna write here.

 

this video was uploaded to answer for someone's question who feel nervousness speaking english.

 

in the intro, julian informs this. at that time i found interesting expressions that can be useful.

 

it was that you know i feel many times shy and nervouse, my mind goes blank.

 

yeah this is what i want to speak my feeling.

 

anyway today's dialog is so enough and i'm satisfied.

 

i hope that by keeping this phase, i want to become fluent.